Thursday, October 1, 2009

老夫老妻

In a relationship for a period of time, you should already know every moves of him or her. You should react different to different situation and solve the problems instead of having cold wars.

There are times that you should be a slightly stupid and allow him/her to have face in front of him/her friends.

There are times that you need to strong to standby him/her to go through all the ups and downs.

There are times that you need to 撒娇 with him/her to make them feel that you need attention

There are times that you don't need to independent and simply rely on him/her. They are stronger than you think and you need deserve a rest.

There are times that you need to said what you really feel and if you really miss him/her please let them know.

Too many times, we only look at the bad points of him/her and you have forgotten the good points and take it for granted.

Too many times, we don't have any self-reflection

Too many times, we said a lot of hurtful words and we are stingy on our praise

Too many times, we have high expectation on the other half

Every couples should make an effort to maintain their relationship and keep them 'fresh'. Those 老夫老妻 talk do really apply on old people only. Because they go through a lots to have those 心灵相通.

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